- Have we tried every option to improve the marriage? Including a good faith effort at marriage counseling?
- How will this divorce affect our children and extended family?
- How will my financial needs change and what kind of budget is affordable going forward?
- Do I have all the financial and legal paperwork handy that I’ll need to give to an attorney?
- What will my living arrangements be going forward?
- Can my spouse and I go through this amicably?
- Should my spouse and I consider counseling for our children?
- Should my spouse and I consider co-parenting counseling to arm us with the skills we’ll need to raise our children post divorce?